Moans and groans

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We do like to complain

...and moans and groans is our place to do so!

Moans and groans is a place for us to complain: complain, that is, before we get active in the interest groups to do something about the state of our world.

But moaning and groaning is a waste of life, so get them all out then let's do something more productive.

The US election was quite something

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We Brits are given to looking down on the Yanks as 'Johnny-Come-Latelies' and their elections as a load of vulgar razamataz followd by more of the same.

But this time we clearly got it wrong - well at least with regard to the razamataz though we still have to sea how the 'more of the same' bit goes.

Thank God for That

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As a foreigner to the US elections, I judged McCain to be a decent man handed the poison chalice of the Bush heritage and a financial meltdown.

However, his choice of running mate was a self-inflicted wound of monumental proportions. To choose a lady whose very life style demonstrates an ability to ignore the facts and substitute belief for analysis, who reads no newspapers, who believes that being a 'hockey mum' and a distant view of Russia compensates for a total lack of knowledge of how the US, let alone the world, works.

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4000 spammers and counting - we must be doing something right.

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The Quiet Americans

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A few days ago I was in the company of thousands of young Americans in a field with sea views extending to the far horizons. Though it was late October the sky was clear and blue and though the Americans were young and visiting a foreign country they were quiet and ordered.

The Flat Earth Society is alive and well

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and governing Alaska

It's fundamental

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It's not often that I agree with my brother-in-law

...he's a man who always lives by the rules and I... well I'm a rule breaker, an iconoclast, a pricker of bubbles

Yet yesterday we agreed that the problem wasn't with Christian Fundamentalists, or Islamic Fundamentalists: it's just with 'fundamentalists' and Prof Dawkins has proved once and for all that there is such an animal as a 'Atheist Fundamentalist' - or more accurately a 'Darwin Fundamentalist'.

What Temptation

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I used to be a 'has-been'

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My career came to an abrupt and unexpected end!

I wondered who I was now I was no longer defined by what I was

I had been 'the boss' to a hundred or so people, and I had been 'the boss' since my early thirties. 'The boss' was part of my persona; I liked it that so many people liked to work for me, that I had moved on so many careers, solved so many questions, moved so many forward and suddenly that was all gone.

I missed it when it went.

Now I am my wife's husband; my children's father, my grandchildren's grandfather.

I used to be a has-been

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Sight Seeing

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Radovan Karadzic and Retiring to Goa

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The arrest of Radovan Karadzic, in the guise of a harmless if useless practitioner of alternative medicine makes me wonder about the nature of all things foreign. When I worked in Nigeria there was a sign on the main road advertising 'Madame Comfort - Midwife and Cement Dealer', and across the road a native doctor had cures to 'exam failure' and 'wife doesn't love you'.

In who's Interest?

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I visited my Mother this week

She was a wonderful person, she was the mother of five and kept us all warm. well fed, clean and happy.

Now the youngest of us is in his mid-40s and she in in her late 80s. She's had at least one stroke, and is deeply confused.

She's deeply unhappy, but kept alive by a pile of pills. She's tried to kill herself once, but now she's incapable of doing even that.

My wife has a relation who'se 101 and spends her days in silence staring at the ceiling.

In who's interest?

Decoration is not my forte


Even my most ardent admirer

....would have to admit that decorating rooms is not a forte of mine. i have painted more carpets than walls and the kitchen cupboards I put up for my good lady fell on her just a few months later.

As a bodger I can spot another bodger at a mile - usually I buy their houses.Today I have a professional decorator in and he makes everything look very easy and me feel a bit of a failure. It wouldn't be so bad if the lad didn't look like he was about 12.

My friendly pound


Some friends are just too persistent!

Ten and more years ago, when I lived and worked in West Africa and lived on a diet of gin and tonic and beer, I topped 16 stone.

My life was not sedentry: I walked to and from my car and often excercised my arm when lifting food to my mouth.

Choice - what choice?


We're told that we 'baby-boomers' have more money, health and ambition

... than any generation before us. Many of us have bought our houses, and most of us have benefitted from medical treatments unheard of when our parents needed them so we should be pleased.

We should be pleased that our grown up children who can't afford a house 'return to the nest'

We should be pleased to baby sit our grandchildren whilst their parents work to buy the newest gadgets and have the best holidays

The Advantages of Age

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The World gets by Without My Input


Its all very strange...

that I'm up with the lark every morning, eager to turn the radio on and suck in all the misery that the world can generate.

... and just of late it has much on offer

What with earthquakes, African Dictators, droughts and floods, every morning I can find enough to get me worked up for a day or more. Bush or Brown has only to open his mouth, another celebrity get arrested for drugs, some guy in Austria lock up his daughter.......

Then I go on holiday and the world is denied my input

...and it didn't seem to notice.

No-Talents


I've got no talents - make me a star

I watched a programme on the box last night which explained that TV companies find it cheaper and easier to elevate 'no talents' to stardom than to pay real talents to produce real entertainment. The evedence of my eyes says you don't have to be good looking, and that of my ears says intellegence isn't a pre-requisit.

Well I've got no talents so why did they leave me out? I'm only moderately ugly and my family frequently comment on my dimness. I qualify!

The Retired but Active Chat Room

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True: many Chat Rooms are designed for teenagers and others are dominated by them
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On enforced retirement


I didn't really want to retire

I made no secret of it. On the one hand i couldn't really afford to retire and on the other what would I possibly do with my time.

The year before had given me a dose of reality: my dear stepfather had a business of his own and carried on with it for far too long - until he was 86 - and took a thriving business down into the dust.

So the questions arise. If it's too early to retire at 65 when is the right time? if that's a different number for different people who is going to tell us?

Group Leadership

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The success or otherwise of Retired but Active

... in its mission to improve our retirement experience depends on our ability to attract Group Leaders with the time and inclination to explain their own area of interest to others.

On Celebrity


I'm not really into celebrity
When some celebrity turns up on the box, or in the papers, a state of ennui comes upon me. I don't know which one's which, who's on the way in and who's 'so last year'.
They all seem to have appeared, like so many sorts of coffee, at some moment whan I wasn't looking. In any case they're all about twelve years old and with more money than i will ever see. Most of them seem only to be famous for being famous so i can't see that even with my limited talents i couldn't be one too.

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